Digital book in PDF format: 40 golden rules that will make you an exceptional parent
- Are you about to become a mom or dad?
- Are you already a parent and want to change?
- Are you in a conflictual relationship and don't understand your offspring?
- Do you just think you're a perfect parent?
This guide, written by a married father of 3 children for Parents07, literally breaks down preconceived ideas about parenting.
It is the fruit of an educational adventure , that of Olivier and Francesca, which began about 20 years ago now, with the arrival of their first daughter.
Olivier is convinced that we can make our children exceptional beings through a relationship based on empathy.
In this ebook, he lists the many mistakes that absolutely no parent escapes.
The advice he gives to deal with it will sometimes shake you to the depths of your soul, forcing you to question yourself .
This gold mine that we offer you is transmitted to you by a sincere and authentic business leader , who is keen to share his experience in terms of caring and supportive education .
It is up to you to access the restricted circle of Exceptional Parents now.
Here are some excerpts from this treasure:
Rule #1
CHANGING YOUR BELIEFS
Don't raise your children according to what you think is good for them. Raise your children according to what is good for them, even if it goes against your beliefs.
Rule #10
CONGRATULATE AFTER AN INITIATIVE
Don't congratulate your child for the good results he has obtained, he will become dependent on congratulations and will only try experiences that he is sure to succeed in. Finally, he will be afraid of failure and will evolve much less quickly.
Make a habit of praising him for trying something new or difficult even if you are not happy with the result.
Rule #28
GIVING ATTENTION AT THE RIGHT TIME
Stop reacting only when your child misbehaves.
This is not a criticism, don't feel guilty, I'm just pointing out a very classic parental inconsistency.
That is to say that usually when your child behaves well, you say nothing, you continue your activities. When your child comes to see you, you will tell him: not now, later, later and often this later will not come fast enough.
So your child will start to get restless, to get into mischief and that's when you're going to stop what you're doing and take care of your child. Well... take care of him... you're going to scold him, tell him to stop, punish him, yell at him.
In short, the worse he behaves, the more attention he will have.
